Things to steal

I’m over thirty years old now, and I often find myself thinking, Wow, if thieves broke into my home, they’d just leave. I literally have nothing valuable even worth stealing. I mean, sure, my wife and I both have fairly decent computers, that’s something. But not really what I’m talking about. I want to have a secret safe hidden behind a picture with valuable…..things……in it. But what valuable things? What do people have that’s so valuable that it’s actually worth keeping in a safe?

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My first Sukkot,with Pics

So we purchased PVC pipe and constructed a sukkah. The first meal in it..pretty nice! Said kiddush and hamatzi. We couldn’t afford lots of the other things, like we don’t have an etrog or any of the other requirements. I figured just getting a sukkah up was pretty good, given that I JUST started my new job and haven’t gotten  paid there yet.

This year the sukkah we constructed is fairly small. It’s not really big enough to seat the kids yet, so just my wife and I eat in it. The kids eat off to the side. Next year, I’d definately like to make it a little larger.

There’s lots of pine trees and such in our apartment complex, so I was easily able to acquire some branches for the covering. For the most part, many of these trees were in need of a good pruning anyhow, so I think we really did someone a favor here.

Now, for anyone unfamiliar with Jewish Holidays (like me), the interesting thing about Sukkot is that it’s such a BIG holiday that happens IMMEDIATELY after another big holiday. We literally just finished off Yom Kippur like last week and went straight into SUkkot. Pretty crazy. I’ve ready that there should be a procession around our synogogue at one of the services coming up, so I’m really hoping not to miss that. Honestly, one of my favorite parts about a service is the torah procession..so..I can’t help but wonder if we’ll be doing a giant torah procession around the building (probably not) !!

Anyway, here’s our cheap little, thrown together sukkah…

 

 

Happy Holidays and Shalom!


My first Yom Kippur, tips and thoughts

So, was definitely NOT fully prepared for my first Yom Kippur. Part of the problem was that my wife and I had decided ahead of time, that we were not going to honor the liquid fast this year. Then, at the last moment, we each individually decided that there was no point in doing things halfway, and changed our minds. Now even so, there was time to be more prepared, so here are tips to you (and me) for next year:

1. Eat a complex carb meal right before. We actually had a very large meal, but I’m not sure any of it was complex (and thus longer laster).

2. Drink A LOT of water! This is where we fell down. We were very dehydrated the next day, but this could have been lessened by drinking lots of water the day prior.

3. Shower and hygiene shortly before sunset. You’re not going to be able to later, and I think you’ll be pretty happy about taking the time to do this.

4. Make sure you have canvas shoes and a non-leather belt already. Otherwise, you’ll be rushing to the store just before sunset instead of following the other tips here!

 

Now, my general thoughts about the big day. First, for any non-jews reading this, Yom Kippur is the Day Of Atonement. It’s the day that we’re pleading for God to forgive our sins. Now, certainly we do this every single day (praying three times a day as sin sacrifice offerings), but this is the day that we’re trying to get any outstanding sins forgiven for the entire year. It’s a big deal.

So here’s the thing. I really think that we’re much too dressed up on this day. In Torah, people are always wearing sack-cloth during times of repentance. It’s a good outward sign of how we should be feeling, humble and distressed. People were showing up to synagogue in suit+tie and such. Still fairly dressed up. I personally, do not like this. I actually wonder if there’s a synagogue somewhere that would turn you away if you showed up like that. I may do some research and find out. I like my shul, but, I would go to a different shul on Yom Kippur if I could find one that believed more closely to the way that I do.

Eating & drinking fast. I wasn’t sure how I felt about this. But, I think it’s important now. I never realized how difficult it was not to drink for an entire day. The eating, honestly, wasn’t a big deal for my wife or myself. Sure we got hungry a few times, but we were prepared more for that. It was the not drinking. At one point, I had almost decided to break the water fast. But then, I felt really REALLY pathetic about it. I thought, what pathetic kind of person doesn’t have the will-power to go without food and drink for a single day? How pathetic am I, if I cannot will myself to do this, even for a single day? At the least, it got me thinking a little bit about our counterparts in other parts of the world (or perhaps the homeless right here in our city) that have to deal with thirst and hunger regularly. I think, if anything, once I good tzedaka going, it will be to make sure that the poor are fed. Everyone should at LEAST have access to water to drink if not some type of food to sustain themselves.

I understand if you do not agree with anything that I’ve said here and also would like to start pointing out that my thoughts and ideas are not representative of the entire Jewish population. Don’t hate all Jews just because you disagree with one of MY viewpoints.

Shalom.


Why I hate subway + tofu

So we are trying to eat better, and by better I mean not only more healthy, but with more concern for our animal friends (cows and such). As a result, I was introduced recently to tofu. I’ve never had tofu before, but I have to say, it really wasn’t bad at all. Thusfar, we’ve have tofu burritos, tofu lasagna, and tofu stuffed pasta shells. All. Very. Good.

So today, I didn’t bring food to work, resulting in subway eatage. Standing in line, contemplating all the non-kosher meat, I decided to give the Veggie Delight a whirl. Now, there’s one thing that I loathe and despise about Subway, and that’s that they always ask me what I want on my sub. And I’m not talking about do I want cheese or pickles. I mean, they want to know EVERYTHING that is suppose to go on the sub. Now, when I order a sub, right there, RIGHT THERE, is a picture of the sub that I want. With all of the happy things on it, that should go on it. WHY must the ask me what is suppose to go on it. I’m not a sandwich master. If I KNEW what should go on it, I’d open up my own shop and start selling gourmet subs with things that go on subs. Of which, I do not know.

So, there’s why I hate subway. I just want to point to a picture and say, “Make me that.” And you cannot do that at subway. I hate it. But…I ordered a veggie. Not to my surprise, they ask what I want on it. And for once…it really wasn’t a big deal. Lettuce, cucumbers, onions, bell peppers, banana peppers. Oh and some mayo.  Please.

I found out later (remember, this was my first veggie), that apparently if you get a veggie, ask for TWICE the normal amount of mayo / mustard, whatever you have on there. The regular serving amount WILL NOT be enough. So, next time I’ll know.


Nature trail, Pics

We went to a state park nearby. I’m not sure that I’ve ever been to a state park, so I wasn’t really sure what to expect. For some reason, I suppose I expected it to be mostly the same as a normal park. Well, yeah. It’s not.

First, we walked along a nature trail (paved) lined on both sides by row after row of walnut trees.

One actually dropped a few feet ahead of us while we were walking! As you can see, the trees are fairly tall, so after this, I was constantly on guard, waiting for one of these large walnut shells to drop from eighty feet in the air and land on my head. Praise the lord, it never happened to any of us.

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The Debate

So I went to a debate recently called “Good Without God”. Present were an atheist, a minister, and rabbi Sendrow. It was an interesting debate. The format was as follows:

– Each debator received 15 minutes to state their overall position

– Each debator received 5 minutes to rebut the other debators

– Each debator received 5 minutes to answer Q / A (5 minutes per question selected. Questions were written on index cards and sent to the front).

– Each debator was given (10/15?) minutes to conclude.

I had a few problems with the way this worked. First off all, 15 minutes is a LONG time. Too many topics were covered by each speaker for any of the other speakers to really address. As an idle listener in the crowd, I often forgot most of the points that each of the speakers brought up. It would have been better for them to have spoken in maybe 5 minute intervals with 5 minutes to rebut, or something similar.

Questions came from the crowd, and were anonymous. Honestly, it felt like the atheist had setup many of his constituents to send in specific questions for him to answer. Questions that weren’t really related to the debate, but were about his overall stance on various topics. I wasn’t interested in his thoughts on Heaven, Hell, and Evolution. That’s not what the debate was about.

The atheist was a somewhat well-versed debator / speaker. I identified a few tricks / techniques that he used on the audience, that I hope everyone else was smart enough to recognize.

1. He used a story involving saving a baby. Was the story true? I honestly doubt it. I think it was meant to stir up emotion to further his point. You bring in saving a baby from a fall, and that evokes an emotional response, not a logical one.

2. He quoted statistics, without really providing proof. He offered statistics, and just expected everyone to just accept them as being true.

3. He would sometimes sum-up and say that one or both of the other speakers had agreed with him on various points, when in fact, they had not. This one was quite tricky to pick up on.

4. He used one or two, what I like to call, logic bombs. Things that are thought out ahead of time, that are difficult to reason your way out of without sufficient time to consider them. Very tricky if you’re not ready for it.

Overall, I was disappointed by the debate. No one argued whether the source of all goodness stemmed from God, which is what I thought the debate was going to be about. Everyone did agree that it was possible to be a good person and lead a good life without being religious at all. In fact, for the most part, I’m still confused as to what was actually being debated.

Anyway, here are some pictures of the very large and pretty church that it was held in.


Getting out of a funk

Are you here because you just don’t have anything better to do? Do you not really even want to be here, but being here is simply better than being nowhere? Do you ever stare at your TV/computer/space, WANTING almost CRAVING something exciting to do, but nothing comes to mind? You could watch TV, but you don’t feel like it. You could play video games, but you don’t feel like it. You could do quite a few things, but you just don’t feel like it.

The real problem, is that you don’t feel like doing anything, but you DO NOT want to do nothing! You want to do something, but really, you actually don’t want to. You want some exciting, challenging, amazing experience TO JUST HAPPEN. Of course, you know nothing’s going to happen, and this depresses you.

So, does this sound familiar? Is this you? This is me, on occasion and I would be curious to know if others ever feel this way. Ever feel this burning desire to do…something…but nothing seems to work out. Either you can’t afford the things that you want to do, or the things you want to do are out of season (the concert was last night, dinner theater isn’t for three more days, etc….).

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God and nature

One of my beliefs, is that God has created a set of laws, that I think we typically refer to as nature. Maybe that’s not right, nature is nature. Natural laws? Is that better? I promise, someday I’ll find more time to more thoroughly cite and research these topics. But for now, you’ll just have to put up with it. So, natural laws. We’re basically talking about things like gravity, evaporation, surface tension, etc..

Now to continue my thought, God has created a set of laws, and he doesn’t step outside the bounds of the laws that he has created very often. We can take it for granted that the sun will rise every morning, and set every evening. That basic laws of nature / physics will continue to be true and not suddenly change on us. And, I think God is bound by these laws. Not because he has to be, but because he has decided to be.

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